What I Want My Children to Know
A manifesto on life
Last week when I shared some Advice from Mom. I had forgotten I did several individual posts in 2015 titled What I Want My Children to Know. I think they are still important today, now that my kids are adults, and I am sharing them in a postcard today.
Smile. Â You would be amazed at how much a simple smile, even just to yourself, can change your mood, lighten your heart, and affect those around you.
Every day is a gift. Â Though it can be difficult, set your worries aside and savor each moment for what it is giving you. Â Take the time each day to be in the present, take a photo, draw a picture, simply observe the quiet or hustle around you, and internalize these little snapshots in time. Â These are the things that will keep you grounded.
Family is sacred. Â Both your biological family and your family of closest friends. Â Honor those relationships, they will sustain you throughout your lifetime.
Listen to your inner voice. Â You know right from wrong and have a powerful moral compass. Â there will be temptations that challenge you, but I know that if you stay true to yourself you will thrive.
Actions speak louder than words.  Do not take someone’s words simply at face value, observe them, and see if they walk the talk, that will tell you volumes about what kind of person they are. Be sure that your actions reflect and affirm the beliefs that you so passionately believe.
Simple is not boring. Â Embrace the simple in this fast-paced culture in which we live. Â You may find that time passes you far too quickly, and the simplest things are the most memorable.
Always keep your child-like sense of wonder. Â There is so much magic around you, allow yourself to find joy in it.
Be a lifelong learner and dreamer. Â Maintain your curiosity. Â read. learn. do. share. Â If nothing else, I hope your dad and I have shown you how to follow your dreams and teach yourselves how to stride for the next step on your horizon. Dreaming and learning + trial and error = ultimate fulfillment.
Remember your manners. Â It seems like this is antiquated, but do not forget to be polite in a time when face-to-face seems more the exception than the norm. Â We are all a bit deadened by the constant digital communication. Â Do not lose yourself and politeness in the mass of emojis and lol's.
Until Next Time,
